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婚礼结束后了的(大约)两个月，我现在才要写我婚后的感触….有那么一些些迟了点….但是好过没写吧….哈哈
心情 - 轻松。
肩膀没再有那么承重的感觉。一切有如随风而去…..能够和老公说说笑笑的
婚礼结束后，一收到摄影师给的当天相片，到现在都会时不时的翻出来看看。回味着当天的心情，傻笑着。现在的我真真整整能够体会其他人所说的 “享受当下筹备婚礼时的感受”。 就因为那么一天，辛辛苦苦准备这么久，花费的时间，“咻” 一下就过了。 那些没理由的脾气，好像也不曾有过似得。
庆幸，自己和老公所决定的所有事情都是对的。
请了专业的摄影师和录影师，提我们记录了我们人生重要的一天。选对了去台湾拍摄婚纱照，找队了婚纱公司，酒店。
感动， 在自己最重要的一天能够和自己最要好的朋友们分享这一刻。 谢谢他/她们抽出时间提我准备“迎接新娘” 的游戏。 体谅我这紧张过渡又麻烦的新娘。
特别谢谢老公， 体谅我那段时期的脾气。
婚礼， 真的是件让人又爱又恨的事情。
It’s has been quite some time since i do up a movie review …. not that i have not been watching movies… just that i’m pretty lazy haha … and well my memory has been failing me lately … i wonder why to a certain extent… *pout*
Ok back to the topic…. the movie – The Battleship
I caught its thriller in the cinema and the first tot that came into my mind was …wow it has nice effect … and knowing that it is directed by the director of transformer …. “no wonder” came into my mind…. i hasn’t meant to catch it eagerly … and it had slipped off my mind until .. .my facebook is flooded with posts of friends catching this movie…. and well since i have not been to the threater for some time … it seems like a good reason to catch it ….
After watching it ….the plot was the typical … US dominating scenarios .. where curios scientists are out to communicate with other living entities outside of our own universe …. not knowingly that their curiousity will somehow turn out badly….. they invited the uninvited to invade our planet earth ….
althou its the same old plot .. where u can see from movies like Independence Day …. this time round the director / producer of this movie had focused the “war” with the “aliens” in water (i.e. sea) instead of land … and making the movies interesting … we get to see how wars from the navy’s perspective…. the navy technology and advanced weapons used by the “aliens” and the US marshall …. the warship … the battleship … technical terms used ….
One scene which i find interested was the point whether the remaining “warship” (i dunno wat its really name was called) that was cordorned off together with the “aliens” battleship, the night scene where the Japanese officer actually used a very smart way of locating / detacting the enemy position ….
of cos such movie…. we could more or less guessed that the US marshall would always be the winner …. i still personally finds it interesting …
Out of my personal rating … i would give this show a 7 out of 10 …..
Brief update:
1) Yes, I’m officially married (in the eyes of my parents and in-laws) on March 11, 2012. We had a wonderful and traditional customary wedding. Nothing fanciful just simple and the way it was suppose to happen to everyone. I’ve enjoyed my day as the “star” and was very thankful for all the help I could get on that day. Although I still have to apologize to those whom I am unable to invite due to the very limited number of tables I’m allocated. No honeymoon planning nor family planning yet.
2) 2 days after the wedding my poor Toshiba lappie hard disk crashed… My fault actually I think I did not shut down the comp properly resulting its operating system hw swap walked out of my “life” … Making matter worse…. I did not backup my stuffs in time and so I just had to cry…lucky we now trying to salvage my lost files. Let’s pray i would be able to get back what I’ve lost.
3) work and work and work …. What else it’s the peak period
what’s it feels like …when i’m left with 11 more days to go before my AD …. starting to feel abit nervous…wondering if everything will be in order …. no hipcups would be the best …. have i missed out anything that is not done yet???
oh beside this … work … just came back from my shanghai trip this morning and i’m left with the weekends and 3 and a half more working days to complete my clients’ mins of meetings …. 4 set of mins…. gosh i gotta work OT liao lor …. dreading to face it ….but its the reality that i cannot run away from ….
my brain in like in a knot now … work …wedding …work…. wedding ….nervous…..frustrated….nervous ….frustrated…
and now i’m just wondering where did the feeling of happiness went …. hmphz….
趁我现在还记得那么些感触时把它记下来…筹备婚礼的感触
刚开始的时候，那心情是既兴奋又期待的。好想大声的告诉所有朋友；“我要结婚了！”但理智的我没那么做。
兴奋，因为自己即将为人妻，人生将步入另一个阶段。拥有一个属于你我二人世界的“家”。 如此谁会不兴奋呢?
期待，因为从小渴望，幻想自己披上那完美的白纱的日子即将到来。 美美的等待自己的“白马王子”将自己带走，过着幸福美满的日子。
但是， 很快的那些兴奋，期待感渐渐的被压力，负担，懊恼取代。时不时地对另一半流露出不耐烦的情绪。后悔，干嘛找些事让自己烦恼。各方面的负担悄然到来，压力也似乎慢慢的变成“好朋友”时不时的登门拜访一下。情绪起伏也如那过山车般，时高时低。夜里，情绪稳定还能安慰自己。如果过于低迷，伴泪入眠也是常有的事。
很多结了婚的朋友们会说， “好好享受筹备婚礼的乐趣吧！”而我却一点也不觉得这是一种享受。
或许是自己要求很高吧？希望每位莅临婚宴或帮忙自己的朋友能尽情享受，而不是感到负担。自己很想要做到每个人希望的，却渐渐忽略了自己想要的。也有一点太过在乎其他人的感受多过自己的委屈。
几度濒临崩溃，想逃避，就此算了。 搞个婚礼搞到自己情绪崩溃这又是何苦。但逃避也不能解决问题， 只好安慰自己继续筹备着。委屈一下，让人不谅解一下，也就会过去的。 人嘛， 跌倒了还不是自己得爬起来。
上述都是前几个月的感触…现在离婚礼的日子越来越近，我反而倒不去想，也不去感受那么多了。 也可能是这几个星期正巧是工作较忙的日子吧，没多余的时间想东想西啦。现在只想尽快结束婚礼让我回到正常的生活吧。
PS: Sometimes I think I’ve wrongly portraited myself to be a very strong person …bcos from the feedback i got from most of my friends they were not at all worried about me preparing for my wedding … i think they were assured that I could handle it on my own very well …. (well in fact i do have to say i did …prepared everything duly …. and timely) but I guess I’m just a human … and importantly i’m a woman …. i’m not always what I seems I am …. everyone has got his/her weak side … and I do too …. it just so happens that I don’t really shares my weakest side to my friends (ok not even the best buddies) .. that all …. so probably thats why they have assumed that there’s nothing to worries about yve’s preparation i guess…. *shrug* my personality …it strengthens me but yet at the same times its also the same thing that breaks me …. *shrug shrug*
